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Aug 1 2008, 01:17 AM
GET EM STEPH!!
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We will have to disagree about 1986. I see similarities but moving on...
- Aug 1 2008, 01:09 AM
- Aug 1 2008, 01:00 AM
Well, I think it could be used to help Marlena come to the realization that John keeps distancing himself from her more and more because she won't even attempt to accept him. She tried briefly but couldn't seem to do it. If they needed too, they could even go back to Marlena leaving twice and use that by having Marlena explain she's scared because she doesn't want to get hurt and she doesn't want to hurt him. She doesn't know what to expect from him or how it would be like being involved with him because he's shady. It's like 1986 all over again. She has to let herself go gradually. She has to learn to trust him and to accept him for all he is and all that comes with him. Meanwhile, he has to learn alot as well.
I know it's hard to trust the show as far as all this goes but I do think the Ava thing will be used as a springboard in some way. I think Marlena will ask John why he turns to other woman and not her after all she's done for him and then it will go from there. I really do think we will at least get that much.
I was semi-agreeing with you till the 1986 sentence, lol. But I think this is nothing
like 1986. This should have
been written like that, but it hasn't been at all. In 1986, J&M fell in love even though Marlena didn't have the slightest clue who John was. Marlena tried to help John recover his past, and in her doing so, they grew even closer. Here, Marlena isn't trying to accept the new John. She did once - remember that scene where they danced before she left for Colorado the first time? She told John she was falling for him. But then the writers moved away from that entirely. And there is no way that J&M can grow closer when the way Marlena's trying to help John recover his past is by hiring someone to glue together a computer disk.
I really don't think Marlena and John will discuss why he's turned to other women. If the writers have learned anything at all from the Steve/Kayla/Ava story, perhaps they'll put it in, but with these writers, every learning curve seems to be particularly steep.
I think the fact they made a big deal out of John distancing himself from people who don't accept him or try to is a good sign for at least getting some of what we are discussing mentioned. The writers seem to be driving that point home and I do think having Marlena leave twice (the real reason, and I know Dee or the show never mentioned this, was they knew they had to use Dee alot later and wanted to make sure she didn't go over guarantee) was to show her difficulty in dealing with John and accepting him. She was confused and it was easier to run. It's like John said after the second time...Eric's injuries were minor. She used it as an excuse to stay away for a bit.
I think they can still make this all work and click together. Remember, Draughon was promoted recently and things have improved slightly so who knows. it was too late with Kayla/Steve/Ava but it's not too late here. We'll see. I hope we get some stuff like this but I'm also one who could care less if J&M get back together so go figure LOL.