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Feb 10 2013, 04:39 PM
- January 27, 2013
I also have a "Will and Gabi" and the dynamic is the same as you are describing. I don't know what to make of it either, and in my case its the Gabi that is gay, but if I were their partners I wouldn't like it one bit.
- Feb 10 2013, 09:50 AM
- Feb 9 2013, 10:20 PM
- Feb 9 2013, 10:04 PM
I look at it a different way. If they believe and accept that Will is gay, it shouldn't matter why he slept with Gabi, because no matter what the answer is...Will's still gay.
Not questioning it, to me, shows more care, support, and acceptance than questioning it does. I certainly wouldn't question it if I learned that one of my gay friends had slept with a woman shortly after coming out of the closet. I'd "get" that without even needing to hear an explanation. I think that most of the people in Will's life are intuitive enough to feel the same way.
I think Sonny has a legitimate right to question Will about it, especially prior to deciding if he wants to get back together with Will. It's not so much a matter of what Will did in the past but what he could do in the future. Will was openly gay when he slept with Gabi back in August. What's to stop him from doing it again in the future, be it with Gabi or another woman? He said he was gay then. He says he is gay now. I honestly do not see the difference. Sonny should be very skeptical of Will because he will never truly be able to trust him if he says it won't happen again.
See this is interesting to me.
In my own little world I know a "Will and Gabi" and whilst my "Will" is gay and I don't doubt that, their relationship sometimes makes me have this face :huh1:
I don't think that makes me any less caring or supportive etc. just at times a little confused. They always seem to get in the way of each others romances intentionally or not.
Will and Gabi will never be a couple, but that doesn't mean they won't have some weird relationship or never sleep with each other again.
I think Sonny has every right to question Will on his relationship with Gabi, especially as Sonny will have to regularly deal with a woman he doesn't like if he's with Will.