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May 2 2013, 10:26 AM
- February 23, 2013
If this is the case, then why was cheating something on her list as her never doing; kisses have been exchanged with others outside of her 'main' relationship way before......but it isn't; the character herself identified Grief Sex as a turning point for her, something she thought she would never do.
- May 2 2013, 10:20 AM
- May 2 2013, 09:51 AM
IMO, there is a big difference between Sami "cheating" on EJ with Rafe in 2010 (although technically I don't know if it's really cheating if you don't do the deed) and when she cheated on Rafe with EJ in 2011. In 2010, she was not really committed to EJ. She was basically begging Rafe to give her a reason to say no to EJ's proposal. Not saying it was okay for her to throw herself at Rafe, but she and EJ were not even sleeping together. In 2011, Sami and Rafe were a committed married couple, from all appearances devoted to each other and Sami and EJ were barely speaking. That's why the grief sex came as such a shock. I think that really is the first time that Sami cheated while being in a real committed relationship.
Cheating to be is any type of intimacy my partners shares with someone other than me. Therefore a kiss, make-out session, whatever is cheating.
You telling me you wouldn't be pissed or consider it cheating if someone did that to you? I would be!