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Sep 23 2013, 06:19 PM
- May 17, 2013
She will most likely not sleep a wink worrying about him while he's out having a blast trashing Dan's apartment. All the more reasons for nobody in the family to take him in, he's just looking for trouble. If JJ's going to be fixed in any way, he will have to start by taking responsibility for his actions. I still say his mother's personal life has nothing to do with it, doesn't matter who she's seeing. It's not like she's got some guy living at her house . JJ has a home to go to but he prefers the streets to following rules. Lets see how that's going to work out for him.
- Sep 23 2013, 05:45 PM
- Sep 23 2013, 03:45 PM
- Sep 23 2013, 03:12 PM
- Sweet and Salty
- Sep 23 2013, 03:06 PM
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Tough is one thing; but she remembers wanting nothing to do with her grandparents. At least if he could stay at another relative's house, she would know he's not sleeping on the streets. Where's her common sense? It would give him a chance to cool off and then want to come home on his own. Stupid.
Completely agree. I mean would it have really hurt to let him sleep at a relative's house? And for the record, I don't for a second believe that Jo & Vern would have turned JJ away, even if Jen-Jen has asked them too.
Tough love is one thing. Power plays that blow up in your face are another. If I was a mom fighting with my kid, and he stormed out of the house, threatening never to return, I would still prefer he crashed at a relative's house instead of sleeping on the street. Because that way I'd know where he was, and that someone who cared could at least let me know the sitrep with him. All it takes is one night on the streets for a kid to run into a situation that could be the death of him--a drug overdose, a robbery, a shooting, a stabbing, a case of hypothermia if the temperatures drop too low. I'm surprised no one's directed JJ to a shelter or a youth hostel--that would do in a pinch, and at least he'd sleep warm--or are we to believe that Salem has no homeless and no runaways? I think it's stupid and short-sighted for Jennifer to demand that no one in JJ's family take him in. If anything, she's driving him even further away with those tactics. I could almost
not blame him for breaking in to a place he knows won't be occupied for the night. And I hope Jen-Jen doesn't sleep a wink for worrying--that is, if she's capable of worrying about anyone except Daniel.