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Dec 3 2013, 11:48 AM
- May 20, 2009
I don't think they're keeping her true to her character at all, but it has very little to do with EJ. This is the most out of character I've ever found her and it's in her relationships with everyone. Though ultimately, I think Sami's individual character stopped mattering years ago. She has nothing outside of who she's paired with anymore.
- Dec 3 2013, 11:35 AM
- Dec 3 2013, 11:22 AM
- Dec 3 2013, 11:06 AM
I think it goes like this: if you don't like Ejami, everything is a reason for them to break up.
- Dec 2 2013, 10:10 PM
^^How does that make more sense? They should end their relationship instead of dealing with their issues just cause? and why shouldn't Sami tell EJ she loves him when she very much does and we have seen during this separation her missing and reaching for him. EJ is sensing Sami distancing from him, he doesn't know the real reason and a bit of misunderstanding may be involved before and during the fight, but misunderstandings are meant to be resolved and once they are, they can move forward.
I can't say I share this logic. I have couples I dislike now (looking at you, Dannifer!) and ones I've thoroughly loathed (Sonny & Carly on GH, Reva & anybody on GL, RKKBo & Carly, to name but a few) but I didn't read the spoilers trying to find reasons they might break up. Of course, I also didn't think the entirety of GH, GL or Days '92 would be all peachy if my couple of maximum would be just break up.
On bolded, I don't think that's necessarily true. I don't like Ejami but I don't see a reason for them to break up over this.....If anything I think there was a more valid reason for them to break up over the Stefano thing than this.....I just think the writing isn't really doing the couple any favors....how are you suppose to 'deal' with your trust issues if you don't trust your partner enough to tell them the 'entire' truth when you decide to spill the beans, and now Sami has decided to hold her secret just because Ej didn't tell her his..
It appears Ej's loyalty is firmly behind his family, even if he has falling outs with Stefano and hasn't really had 'that big' a bond with Kristen, when made to choose Dimeras over Sami, he does it without really even blinking. Then what I find worse is that he now KNOWS everything, didn't tell Sami everything, but is still trying to paint Eric in an unfavorable light.
IMHO, if they would break up, maybe they can find a way to DEAL with the problems that plague them, they aren't going to do that by having Sami always brush everything he's doing lately under the rug....and I know this time she has put a hold on the relationship but it's just stupid....it's like she has one foot out and one foot in....either make a decision and stick to it then maybe that cooling off can serve as a wake up call for either.....the way it is now...she doesn't move out, but she doesn't want him sleeping in her bed and they still haven't dealt with their problems...it's called spinning your wheels and I do agree with the poster that said up thread that it seems the show doesn't know what to do with them.
Totally agree with you Jane and we see it a lot.
The writers are keeping EJ and Sami very true to their characters and as such are building the EJAMI relationship around it.......the fall out from the wedding, the tension, the push and pull, neither willing to budge has been great and its only a matter of time before one caves, again in line with who they both are. First it was EJAMI always fight and have sex and then when we obviously do not see that happening its they don't know what to do with them.......or rather if I may add, it doesn't matter what they do because even when the pattern was not the first mentioned an attempt was being made to make it as such. :lol:
We havn't even reached the point in the sl where everything comes to a head, so why is it expected that it should already be dealt with?