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Dec 11 2013, 09:31 AM
- May 6, 2010
Yeah, being sweet and loving isn't something EJami has struggled with for most of the year. In fact, they got a little too sticky sweet for me at times. Remember the breakfast sex with the roses, LOL? But obviously not in the last month since the wedding.
- Dec 11 2013, 08:26 AM
- Dec 11 2013, 05:04 AM
- Dec 11 2013, 03:33 AM
- Dec 10 2013, 03:36 PM
I don't get the big deal about the "denying access to your body" line. I mean, isn't that exactly what she's been doing? She didn't move out. She didn't break up with him. She didn't tell him she doesn't love him. Instead, she told him she's not going to share her secret and she's not going to have sex with him. So, he's basically just saying he's sick of his punishment in the exact terms she defined it.
The "denying me access to your body" line sounded like the lord of the manner line to a serving wench in a novel set in the eighteenth century,it was creepy.That is not a statement a man in love makes to the woman he loves.It is as if he is more concerned with the fact that he is not getting any than the loss of the emotional closeness between them.As I said in posting about the scene between EJ and Stefano,EJ seems to see Sami as a trophy not the love of his life.There is very little tenderness between Sami and EJ,he showed more tenderness to Abby today than Sami.All you get with them is shouting,pushing,grabbing,aggressive sex,a variation on the deadbaby sex not love with tenderness.
Not true. They are currently fighting hence the forceful nature of both of their personalities are coming out.....however, they don't call it handsy EJAMI for nothing, when things are good with them, their is so much love and tenderness. EJ did not even mention the lack of sex first and that was the only mention when compared to the entire conversation and fight being about their emotional separation.....pretty much the opposite.
Yeah, you only have to go back to the day of the wedding (Salem day, not real life day) to see them being tender and teasing and playful with each other. I do think EJ could have phrased things more tactfully, but they're in the middle of a fight and Sami is only doing this to get back at him, so, :shrug:
Like I said upthread, I have zero issues with what EJ said. Or I should say I have zero issues with the sentiment he expressed. The use of "denying me access to your secrets and your body" is kinda an affected way to phrase it, but so are about half the things that he says. But yeah, expressing the frustration makes total sense to me since sex and secrets are the two things that Sami announced she's withholding from him.