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|nananana7||Apr 13 2014, 03:58 PM|
I should have clarified that I wasn't speaking from the point of view of what social services or a family court judge would decide.
I was speaking from my own point of view of who I think are the best people.
The whole legal custom of "there's no one better for a child than their parent, if the parent is not abusive or neglectful." -- might be what exists in our society -- but it's not my *personal* belief.
My *personal* belief is that the best parents are the ones who show good examples *AND* give love.
I believe the character of EJ is written to be obsessive and sometimes pleasant but NOT loving. Furthermore he's a rapist and kidneystealer and etc. EJ is the worst example of a human being, and therefore I personally would prefer he have zero access to *any* children.
Many years ago, Sami's character was written as a schemer with a real heart -- but through the years she has become -- at best self-absorbed, and at worst a villainess. She seems mostly heartless nowadays. Therefore I would have allowed her partial contact with Will but only supervised contact with Johnny, Allie, and Sydney.
Lucas used to have some moral values, but they rarely show him anymore, so who knows what the writers think he is now. They bring him out for a few scenes but they don't show much -- except for the WilSon wedding scenes. I see Lucas as a bumbling parent but someone with a genuine good heart.
Gabi is insecure and wanting lots of attention. But she hasn't (yet) gone down Sami's road. I think she could be redeemed if the story is written right. But for now I don't trust her. (Yes I know the actress is leaving, but I'm just saying what I think should happen if she were staying).
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