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SOD/SOW: Hope wants to go home, but Bo says no.; November 17 issues; Summary of articles
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Topic Started: Nov 4 2009, 08:56 PM (1,946 Views)
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fancyface78
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Nov 5 2009, 02:38 AM
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- DrewHamilton
- Nov 5 2009, 02:16 AM
Carly is Bo's friend. I'm sure if it were Lexie or Jennifer that killed someone, Hope would have no problem helping them. Hope doesn't know Carly...and Bo really doesn't know her anymore either. It's Bo's choice to help Carly, but Hope doesn't owe her anything.
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Nov 5 2009, 08:41 AM
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- Nov 5 2009, 01:30 AM
Honestly, I don't mind if they break Bo and Hope up for now (we all know it won't last, anyway). What I wish, however, is that they had done it in a way that wasn't so annoying and so obviously manufactured for the sake of the plot. For weeks, I've been rolling my eyes through almost every Bo/Hope scene, because I'm just not buying any of this. Which makes me think another SOD cover is coming in about six months saying "We're sorry!" I'm looking at the story and how it's playing out, and I won't pass full judgment on it yet, but so far it's not looking promising.
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Nov 5 2009, 08:44 AM
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After all... tomorrow is another day!
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- DrewHamilton
- Nov 5 2009, 02:16 AM
Carly is Bo's friend. I'm sure if it were Lexie or Jennifer that killed someone, Hope would have no problem helping them. Carly is MORE than Bo's friend. She's also a romantic threat that Lexie or Jennifer wouldn't be as a friend of Hope's.
Even if the show isn't explicit about it, I can fanwank in the context of Carly bringing up some pain for Hope that Bo moved on to love someone else while she was separated from him and thought dead as well as Hope's insecurities that she thinks she might have another Billie-type on her hands scheming to steal her man.
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Nov 5 2009, 07:19 PM
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- fancyface78
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Carly is Bo's friend. I'm sure if it were Lexie or Jennifer that killed someone, Hope would have no problem helping them.
Hope doesn't know Carly...and Bo really doesn't know her anymore either. It's Bo's choice to help Carly, but Hope doesn't owe her anything. Please...Based on what Hope said...She knew about Carly, She knew about Lawrence. She knew about their engagement she knew she was married to Victor.... Oh yeah! But she didn't know about Carly. Bo knows Carly...that is why he knows that she is going to do the opposite of what he saying or how stubborn Carly is. Are you watching the same show? He even told Justin you know that Carly is a good person and whatever made her kill Lawrence she had her reasons. People this is a show!! But yet she is a killer! But whom did she kill? The man that raped her friend, was involved in Steve disappearance, responsible of the death of Nick Correlli and Emilio should I go on. What was the reason for Hope shooting Kayla? Oh! it was on Bo's visions... Bo is going to help Carly and he is trying to protect his family so that is why he doesn't want neither of them in the house...Actually it would be better for Carly and Bo to go to the cabin and then let Hope to go back to the house...Is her house...that she could leave whenever she needs a break... I like that marriage!
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Nov 5 2009, 08:02 PM
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When I read the topic of this thread, I thought "has Bo lost his mind?" Now, after reading his logic behind it, it makes sense. He is trying to keep his family safe but I doubt Hope will ever fully understand that. She expects nothing but the worst of him.
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fancyface78
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Nov 5 2009, 09:31 PM
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- 4everccfan
- Nov 5 2009, 07:19 PM
- fancyface78
- Nov 5 2009, 02:38 AM
- DrewHamilton
- Nov 5 2009, 02:16 AM
Carly is Bo's friend. I'm sure if it were Lexie or Jennifer that killed someone, Hope would have no problem helping them.
Hope doesn't know Carly...and Bo really doesn't know her anymore either. It's Bo's choice to help Carly, but Hope doesn't owe her anything.
Please...Based on what Hope said...She knew about Carly, She knew about Lawrence. She knew about their engagement she knew she was married to Victor.... Oh yeah! But she didn't know about Carly. Bo knows Carly...that is why he knows that she is going to do the opposite of what he saying or how stubborn Carly is. Are you watching the same show? He even told Justin you know that Carly is a good person and whatever made her kill Lawrence she had her reasons. People this is a show!! But yet she is a killer! But whom did she kill? The man that raped her friend, was involved in Steve disappearance, responsible of the death of Nick Correlli and Emilio should I go on. What was the reason for Hope shooting Kayla? Oh! it was on Bo's visions... Bo is going to help Carly and he is trying to protect his family so that is why he doesn't want neither of them in the house...Actually it would be better for Carly and Bo to go to the cabin and then let Hope to go back to the house...Is her house...that she could leave whenever she needs a break... I like that marriage! I didn't say that Hope didn't know ABOUT Carly, I said she didn't KNOW Carly...and she didn't. The first time she never met the woman was when she found her in HER bed.
And just because Bo knew Carly 16 years ago doesn't mean she's the same person he knew back then. Even Crystal has said that Carly has changed. Bo doesn't know the "new Carly" who has killed her husband. People change...
And to clarify, Hope obviously did not know about the engagement...because when Bo got home, Hope told him he had failed to tell her he was once engaged to Carly. The scene where Carly told Hope about this was cut out from the show because Kristian even referenced in her SOW interview that Hope found out from Carly that she was once engaged to Bo.
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Nov 5 2009, 11:40 PM
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Hope made a choice and now shes living with the consequences of those choices . why should just because another women come along should Hope decide that it is suddenly safe to bring Cierra back the very home that was so unsafe just few days ago. jeolous Hope can just go pout and cry at Victors house and comfort her daughter because sooner or later Cierra will grow up to recent her mothers bad choices Hope is selfish and spoiled and she wanted her way and now shes not getting it. whaaaaa poor Hope
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Nov 5 2009, 11:48 PM
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- Kailyn
- Nov 5 2009, 11:40 PM
Hope made a choice and now shes living with the consequences of those choices . why should just because another women come along should Hope decide that it is suddenly safe to bring Cierra back the very home that was so unsafe just few days ago. jeolous Hope can just go pout and cry at Victors house and comfort her daughter because sooner or later Cierra will grow up to recent her mothers bad choices Hope is selfish and spoiled and she wanted her way and now shes not getting it. whaaaaa poor Hope Well at least she can admit she is jealous, unlike Bo! That's the thing that kills me. Everyone is so mad with Hope just because she is being honest about her feelings. Sometimes the truth hurts. Bo is very clearly jealous of Justin and Hope's friendship but instead of admitting it, he just makes snide remarks implying that his wife is a whore.
Bo's choices are going to have consequences as well! Just because Hope wasn't living in the house anymore, that doesn't mean he had to LET Carly move in. And because of THAT decision, he has put his family in danger....which is the ONLY reason he's not letting them move back home.
I guess we'll have to wait and see how it plays out...
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Nov 5 2009, 11:56 PM
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- fancyface78
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Hope made a choice and now shes living with the consequences of those choices . why should just because another women come along should Hope decide that it is suddenly safe to bring Cierra back the very home that was so unsafe just few days ago. jeolous Hope can just go pout and cry at Victors house and comfort her daughter because sooner or later Cierra will grow up to recent her mothers bad choices Hope is selfish and spoiled and she wanted her way and now shes not getting it. whaaaaa poor Hope
Well at least she can admit she is jealous, unlike Bo! That's the thing that kills me. Everyone is so mad with Hope just because she is being honest about her feelings. Sometimes the truth hurts. Bo is very clearly jealous of Justin and Hope's friendship but instead of admitting it, he just makes snide remarks implying that his wife is a whore. Bo's choices are going to have consequences as well! Just because Hope wasn't living in the house anymore, that doesn't mean he had to LET Carly move in. And because of THAT decision, he has put his family in danger....which is the ONLY reason he's not letting them move back home. I guess we'll have to wait and see how it plays out... just a few days ago she moved out lock stock and barrel and told Bo this was what the therapist told her to do. how suddenly is it ok for her to move back home? can she put aside her pride now thats another woman is a threat to her and thats the real deal? I agree time will tell but if what Hope told Bo was true and this was a doctors suggestion then Hope would come back and tell Bo Cierra is released and able to move back home. again this jusy appears to be Hope's selfish decision .
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Nov 6 2009, 01:01 AM
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As someone who isn't mad at either Hope or Bo in this story, I just try to wrap my head around why people are SOOOOOOOO mad at Hope alone right now for what has happened and I just don't get it.
And I am someone who was 100 percent on Bo's side during the post-Zack saga and thought Hope was shrewish then so I just feel like I am watching a whole different show from some people now who are sooooo mad at her. I just don't get it.
Yeah, it was dumb and selfish for her to move out the way he did but given the way Bo is with refusing to talk about feelings and keeping his own secrets I can see how Hope would feel like her only option is just to get some space and physical distance between them for the time being so it's easier for them to work things out without annoying each other. And both Bo and Hope went through a very traumatic ordeal with Ciara's kidnapping. Why is she not allowed to react imperfectly to that stressful situation? I mean it's not like Hope is so dead certain she is right about everything the way Bo is. From the get-go since she's moved out there's been tons of scenes with her talking to Justin or Victor or whoever about how she's wondering if she's doing the right thing and how she still loves Bo and wishes things could work. Yet because Hope maybe made a mistake this one time she deserves to lose Bo forever because of it? What?
And even if Bo is in hero mode and there's something valiant and romantic about the way he is with Carly, it is still dumb and selfish for him to keep Carly in their house and Hope pointing that out doesn't make her bitch. It makes her realistic. Bo could have hid Carly at the Pub or somewhere else very easily. But he was adamant even when Carly said she wanted to go that he wanted to keep Carly in their house and that has brought danger and turmoil into their home. Hope has a right to be mad.
Oh well. I guess I will just go on enjoying the story and as a fan of Bo and Hope and Bo and Carly I can't really lose.
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Nov 6 2009, 09:17 AM
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As someone who isn't mad at either Hope or Bo in this story, I just try to wrap my head around why people are SOOOOOOOO mad at Hope alone right now for what has happened and I just don't get it.
And I am someone who was 100 percent on Bo's side during the post-Zack saga and thought Hope was shrewish then so I just feel like I am watching a whole different show from some people now who are sooooo mad at her. I just don't get it.
Yeah, it was dumb and selfish for her to move out the way he did but given the way Bo is with refusing to talk about feelings and keeping his own secrets I can see how Hope would feel like her only option is just to get some space and physical distance between them for the time being so it's easier for them to work things out without annoying each other. And both Bo and Hope went through a very traumatic ordeal with Ciara's kidnapping. Why is she not allowed to react imperfectly to that stressful situation? I mean it's not like Hope is so dead certain she is right about everything the way Bo is. From the get-go since she's moved out there's been tons of scenes with her talking to Justin or Victor or whoever about how she's wondering if she's doing the right thing and how she still loves Bo and wishes things could work. Yet because Hope maybe made a mistake this one time she deserves to lose Bo forever because of it? What?
And even if Bo is in hero mode and there's something valiant and romantic about the way he is with Carly, it is still dumb and selfish for him to keep Carly in their house and Hope pointing that out doesn't make her bitch. It makes her realistic. Bo could have hid Carly at the Pub or somewhere else very easily. But he was adamant even when Carly said she wanted to go that he wanted to keep Carly in their house and that has brought danger and turmoil into their home. Hope has a right to be mad.
Oh well. I guess I will just go on enjoying the story and as a fan of Bo and Hope and Bo and Carly I can't really lose. What am I missing here? What secret was Bo keeping about the kidnapping that made Hope so angry? Hope was angry because Bo stopped her from paying the ransom after he saw Ciara shot. He told her why....because of the vision. He only did not tell Hope about one vision. That caused her to leave him. Maybe he was wrong to not tell her but, I don't know, maybe someone who has visions could explain their feelings as to why it isn't an embarrassment to even deal with them yourself, let alone deal with them after someone essentially laughs at you, or tells you they're not real, which is what Hope basically told Bo after he told her about vision of Zach helping him find Theo.
But the kidnapping? After Ciara was safe, he reached out, she threw him out of their bedroom. She wanted to pay Dean a reward. He disagreed and she went ahead. She blamed him for the violence in the house and he offered to do anything....go on vacation with them; sell the house; go to counseling.
Hope has rejected Bo emotionally, blamed him, 100%. And left him. As he said, if he had not walked in on Justin helping her move, he would have known after the fact.
So sorry, it's not even here. Not even a little bit. And it's not new. Hope blames Bo for everything and always has. Bo takes the blame for everything and always has. He crawls back to her, does some elaborate romantic thing for her; and the pattern starts again. It's time for this unhealthy one sided love to end. When someone is angry because their spouse moved on because they were "dead" instead of being miserable and suffering like they hoped, where is the love?
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Nov 6 2009, 10:09 AM
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As someone who isn't mad at either Hope or Bo in this story, I just try to wrap my head around why people are SOOOOOOOO mad at Hope alone right now for what has happened and I just don't get it.
And I am someone who was 100 percent on Bo's side during the post-Zack saga and thought Hope was shrewish then so I just feel like I am watching a whole different show from some people now who are sooooo mad at her. I just don't get it.
Yeah, it was dumb and selfish for her to move out the way he did but given the way Bo is with refusing to talk about feelings and keeping his own secrets I can see how Hope would feel like her only option is just to get some space and physical distance between them for the time being so it's easier for them to work things out without annoying each other. And both Bo and Hope went through a very traumatic ordeal with Ciara's kidnapping. Why is she not allowed to react imperfectly to that stressful situation? I mean it's not like Hope is so dead certain she is right about everything the way Bo is. From the get-go since she's moved out there's been tons of scenes with her talking to Justin or Victor or whoever about how she's wondering if she's doing the right thing and how she still loves Bo and wishes things could work. Yet because Hope maybe made a mistake this one time she deserves to lose Bo forever because of it? What?
And even if Bo is in hero mode and there's something valiant and romantic about the way he is with Carly, it is still dumb and selfish for him to keep Carly in their house and Hope pointing that out doesn't make her bitch. It makes her realistic. Bo could have hid Carly at the Pub or somewhere else very easily. But he was adamant even when Carly said she wanted to go that he wanted to keep Carly in their house and that has brought danger and turmoil into their home. Hope has a right to be mad.
Oh well. I guess I will just go on enjoying the story and as a fan of Bo and Hope and Bo and Carly I can't really lose.
What am I missing here? What secret was Bo keeping about the kidnapping that made Hope so angry? Hope was angry because Bo stopped her from paying the ransom after he saw Ciara shot. He told her why....because of the vision. He only did not tell Hope about one vision. That caused her to leave him. Maybe he was wrong to not tell her but, I don't know, maybe someone who has visions could explain their feelings as to why it isn't an embarrassment to even deal with them yourself, let alone deal with them after someone essentially laughs at you, or tells you they're not real, which is what Hope basically told Bo after he told her about vision of Zach helping him find Theo. But the kidnapping? After Ciara was safe, he reached out, she threw him out of their bedroom. She wanted to pay Dean a reward. He disagreed and she went ahead. She blamed him for the violence in the house and he offered to do anything....go on vacation with them; sell the house; go to counseling. Hope has rejected Bo emotionally, blamed him, 100%. And left him. As he said, if he had not walked in on Justin helping her move, he would have known after the fact. So sorry, it's not even here. Not even a little bit. And it's not new. Hope blames Bo for everything and always has. Bo takes the blame for everything and always has. He crawls back to her, does some elaborate romantic thing for her; and the pattern starts again. It's time for this unhealthy one sided love to end. When someone is angry because their spouse moved on because they were "dead" instead of being miserable and suffering like they hoped, where is the love? I agree here. Hope spits her hatefullness all over Bo then walks out on him not once but twice the second time Bo just happens to walk in as shes packing everything she owns and moving out. she has no regard for keeping any contact with him while shes gone . when he was trying to make every possible change for them such as selling the house she didn't want any part of it. if being in the house was the big deal then why all of a sudden since Carly moved in is Hope so willing to put all that unsafty of the house aside now?. what makes the house suddenly safe and Cierra suddenly all better and able to move back?. Hope is threatned and shes needing to come back to claim her territory. I guarantee if Carly wasn't there Hope would not be moving home. Bo has shut down emotionally to Hope because like he told her nothing he says is the right thing anyway. Hope needs a dose of reality the world doesn't revolve around her menapausle mood swings. she wanted to move everything she owned into Victors house to keep Cierra safe well then I say she needs to stay and keep Cierra safe. Hope does not love Bo unconditionaly Hope can spew her words at Bo but the minute he goes to explain anything she doesn't want to hear it and runs off. who can talk to someone like that. I'm glad to see Bo stand up to her and I'm glad he wasn't falling all over himself to defend himself but he actually used her same excuse to defend himself she didn't like that too much because Hope wants what she wants. she says she loves Bo but her actions say other wise. and now another woman could take what she was willing to throw away because of her selfish pride.
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Nov 6 2009, 10:37 AM
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As someone who isn't mad at either Hope or Bo in this story, I just try to wrap my head around why people are SOOOOOOOO mad at Hope alone right now for what has happened and I just don't get it.
And I am someone who was 100 percent on Bo's side during the post-Zack saga and thought Hope was shrewish then so I just feel like I am watching a whole different show from some people now who are sooooo mad at her. I just don't get it.
Yeah, it was dumb and selfish for her to move out the way he did but given the way Bo is with refusing to talk about feelings and keeping his own secrets I can see how Hope would feel like her only option is just to get some space and physical distance between them for the time being so it's easier for them to work things out without annoying each other. And both Bo and Hope went through a very traumatic ordeal with Ciara's kidnapping. Why is she not allowed to react imperfectly to that stressful situation? I mean it's not like Hope is so dead certain she is right about everything the way Bo is. From the get-go since she's moved out there's been tons of scenes with her talking to Justin or Victor or whoever about how she's wondering if she's doing the right thing and how she still loves Bo and wishes things could work. Yet because Hope maybe made a mistake this one time she deserves to lose Bo forever because of it? What?
And even if Bo is in hero mode and there's something valiant and romantic about the way he is with Carly, it is still dumb and selfish for him to keep Carly in their house and Hope pointing that out doesn't make her bitch. It makes her realistic. Bo could have hid Carly at the Pub or somewhere else very easily. But he was adamant even when Carly said she wanted to go that he wanted to keep Carly in their house and that has brought danger and turmoil into their home. Hope has a right to be mad.
Oh well. I guess I will just go on enjoying the story and as a fan of Bo and Hope and Bo and Carly I can't really lose.
What am I missing here? What secret was Bo keeping about the kidnapping that made Hope so angry? Hope was angry because Bo stopped her from paying the ransom after he saw Ciara shot. He told her why....because of the vision. He only did not tell Hope about one vision. That caused her to leave him. Maybe he was wrong to not tell her but, I don't know, maybe someone who has visions could explain their feelings as to why it isn't an embarrassment to even deal with them yourself, let alone deal with them after someone essentially laughs at you, or tells you they're not real, which is what Hope basically told Bo after he told her about vision of Zach helping him find Theo. But the kidnapping? After Ciara was safe, he reached out, she threw him out of their bedroom. She wanted to pay Dean a reward. He disagreed and she went ahead. She blamed him for the violence in the house and he offered to do anything....go on vacation with them; sell the house; go to counseling. Hope has rejected Bo emotionally, blamed him, 100%. And left him. As he said, if he had not walked in on Justin helping her move, he would have known after the fact. So sorry, it's not even here. Not even a little bit. And it's not new. Hope blames Bo for everything and always has. Bo takes the blame for everything and always has. He crawls back to her, does some elaborate romantic thing for her; and the pattern starts again. It's time for this unhealthy one sided love to end. When someone is angry because their spouse moved on because they were "dead" instead of being miserable and suffering like they hoped, where is the love? I never once saw Hope LAUGH at Bo because of his visions....so if you tell me which episode that was, I would appreciate it. The only one where she told him it was ridiculous was the one of her in bed with another man...which NEVER happened. Bo was frantic that she was going to sleep with Roman just because he saw it in the vision.
Bo wasn't keeping secrets during Ciara's kidnapping...but he is keeping them now....
Hope didn't throw Bo out of their bedroom after the kidnapping. He said he was going to sleep in the guest room and she agreed it was a good idea. She never said "I want you out of our bedroom" or anything to that effect.
I also don't think she's angry that he found love again when she was thought to be dead. But come on, why is it wrong for her to admit that it hurts her a little that he can do just fine without her? In theory, it makes perfect sense to want your spouse to move on and be happy if you should die. But in reality, its not like you want to actually be around to live it and watch it happen in front of you OR come back to find out about it....hence the being dead part. Again, she is just being honest about her feelings. It basically seems like Hope just needs to sit there and keep her mouth shut and never talk about how she feels...that seems to be the only way she could make it through this storyline without getting bashed from here to next week.
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I truly find the character of Hope extremely irritating. I mean what an absolute horrible way to handle everything after the kidnapping take your daughter from her father, then pack up and move in with Victor. Serves her right to lose Bo to Carly. Nice fresh new storyline. Hope is getting unbelievably predicatable and annoying.
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As someone who isn't mad at either Hope or Bo in this story, I just try to wrap my head around why people are SOOOOOOOO mad at Hope alone right now for what has happened and I just don't get it.
And I am someone who was 100 percent on Bo's side during the post-Zack saga and thought Hope was shrewish then so I just feel like I am watching a whole different show from some people now who are sooooo mad at her. I just don't get it.
Yeah, it was dumb and selfish for her to move out the way he did but given the way Bo is with refusing to talk about feelings and keeping his own secrets I can see how Hope would feel like her only option is just to get some space and physical distance between them for the time being so it's easier for them to work things out without annoying each other. And both Bo and Hope went through a very traumatic ordeal with Ciara's kidnapping. Why is she not allowed to react imperfectly to that stressful situation? I mean it's not like Hope is so dead certain she is right about everything the way Bo is. From the get-go since she's moved out there's been tons of scenes with her talking to Justin or Victor or whoever about how she's wondering if she's doing the right thing and how she still loves Bo and wishes things could work. Yet because Hope maybe made a mistake this one time she deserves to lose Bo forever because of it? What?
And even if Bo is in hero mode and there's something valiant and romantic about the way he is with Carly, it is still dumb and selfish for him to keep Carly in their house and Hope pointing that out doesn't make her bitch. It makes her realistic. Bo could have hid Carly at the Pub or somewhere else very easily. But he was adamant even when Carly said she wanted to go that he wanted to keep Carly in their house and that has brought danger and turmoil into their home. Hope has a right to be mad.
Oh well. I guess I will just go on enjoying the story and as a fan of Bo and Hope and Bo and Carly I can't really lose.
What am I missing here? What secret was Bo keeping about the kidnapping that made Hope so angry? Hope was angry because Bo stopped her from paying the ransom after he saw Ciara shot. He told her why....because of the vision. He only did not tell Hope about one vision. That caused her to leave him. Maybe he was wrong to not tell her but, I don't know, maybe someone who has visions could explain their feelings as to why it isn't an embarrassment to even deal with them yourself, let alone deal with them after someone essentially laughs at you, or tells you they're not real, which is what Hope basically told Bo after he told her about vision of Zach helping him find Theo. But the kidnapping? After Ciara was safe, he reached out, she threw him out of their bedroom. She wanted to pay Dean a reward. He disagreed and she went ahead. She blamed him for the violence in the house and he offered to do anything....go on vacation with them; sell the house; go to counseling. Hope has rejected Bo emotionally, blamed him, 100%. And left him. As he said, if he had not walked in on Justin helping her move, he would have known after the fact. So sorry, it's not even here. Not even a little bit. And it's not new. Hope blames Bo for everything and always has. Bo takes the blame for everything and always has. He crawls back to her, does some elaborate romantic thing for her; and the pattern starts again. It's time for this unhealthy one sided love to end. When someone is angry because their spouse moved on because they were "dead" instead of being miserable and suffering like they hoped, where is the love?
I agree here. Hope spits her hatefullness all over Bo then walks out on him not once but twice the second time Bo just happens to walk in as shes packing everything she owns and moving out. she has no regard for keeping any contact with him while shes gone . when he was trying to make every possible change for them such as selling the house she didn't want any part of it. if being in the house was the big deal then why all of a sudden since Carly moved in is Hope so willing to put all that unsafty of the house aside now?. what makes the house suddenly safe and Cierra suddenly all better and able to move back?. Hope is threatned and shes needing to come back to claim her territory. I guarantee if Carly wasn't there Hope would not be moving home. Bo has shut down emotionally to Hope because like he told her nothing he says is the right thing anyway. Hope needs a dose of reality the world doesn't revolve around her menapausle mood swings. she wanted to move everything she owned into Victors house to keep Cierra safe well then I say she needs to stay and keep Cierra safe. Hope does not love Bo unconditionaly Hope can spew her words at Bo but the minute he goes to explain anything she doesn't want to hear it and runs off. who can talk to someone like that. I'm glad to see Bo stand up to her and I'm glad he wasn't falling all over himself to defend himself but he actually used her same excuse to defend himself she didn't like that too much because Hope wants what she wants. she says she loves Bo but her actions say other wise. and now another woman could take what she was willing to throw away because of her selfish pride. I couldn't agree with you more....
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