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Yes Sharon had a baby at 18, but I don't think she deserves to be labelled as a slut for that. When she fell inlove with Nick she was a good mother who was kind and had morals, and yes she slipped up every now and then but don't we all? Also, the reason I fell inlove with Shick so much is because their marriage was realistic, and their love was believable. They had issues in their marriage like many other couple in America. Sharon was never the same after Cassie died, and I don't think I could blame her for loosing her mind after what she's been through.

Queen B

Sep 15 2012, 08:37 PM

I don't think anyone is denying what Sharon has done in recent years, its pretty obvious she's been turned into a slut amung other things..

Yes Sharon had a baby at 18, but I don't think she deserves to be labelled as a slut for that. When she fell inlove with Nick she was a good mother who was kind and had morals, and yes she slipped up every now and then but don't we all? Also, the reason I fell inlove with Shick so much is because their marriage was realistic, and their love was believable. They had issues in their marriage like many other couple in America. Sharon was never the same after Cassie died, and I don't think I could blame her for loosing her mind after what she's been through.

Shick

Sep 15 2012, 11:30 PM

But we're trying to say she was never a saint. Sharon herself has never said she is a saint. No one is saying she's a saint. That is a lame ass attempt haters use to slight Sharon fans, sarcastically calling her a saint in arguments on message boards. Meanwhile Sharon fans never call her a saint... She may be a better person than a certain skank whore bitch red headed slut, but no that doesn't make Sharon a saint.

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She may be a better person than a certain skank whore bitch red headed slut,

Queen B

Sep 15 2012, 11:33 PM

Lmfao she also never tried to kill anyone or use her own child to trick a man into loving her

Sammie Jo

Sep 16 2012, 12:00 AM

she likes to PRETEND she's a saint

Only1Way

Sep 16 2012, 08:10 AM

But she used the death of Cassie as an explanation for her behavior. She uses Faith to try to keep Nick where she wants him.

Both Sharon and Phyllis use their skin traps to get what they want.
Enough said.

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Parental grief is boundless. It touches every aspect of [a] parent's being...When a baby dies, parents grieve for the rest of their lives. Their grief becomes part of them...As time passes, parents come to appreciate that grief is [their] link to the child, [their] grief keeps [them] connected to the child.

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Sociologists and psychologists describe parental grief as complex and multilayered and agree that the death of a child is an incredibly traumatic event leaving parents with overwhelming emotional needs. They also agree that this grief must be acknowledged and felt in its intensity. These experts repeatedly state that dealing with parental grief involves deep pain and ongoing work as the parents attempt to continue their "journey down the lonely road of grief" (Wisconsin Perspectives Newsletter, February 1997, 1).

Grieving parents say that their grief is a lifelong process, a long and painful process..."a process in which [they] try to take and keep some meaning from the loss and life without the [child]" (Arnold and Gemma 1983, 57). After a child's death, parents embark on a long, sad journey that can be very frightening and extremely lonely- a journey that never really ends. The hope and desire that healing will come eventually is an intense and persistent one for grieving parents.

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Parental grief is overwhelming; there is nothing that can prepare a parent for its enormity or devastation; parental grief never ends but only changes in intensity and manner of expression; parental grief affects the head, the heart, and the spirit.

For parents, the death of a child means coming to terms with untold emptiness and deep emotional hurt. Immediately after the death, some parents may even find it impossible to express grief at all as many experience a period of shock and numbness.

Parental bereavement often brings with it a sense of despair, a sense that life is not worth living, a sense of disarray and of utter and complete confusion. At times, the parent's pain may seem so severe and his/her energy and desire to live so lacking that there is uncertainty about survival. Some bereaved parents feel that it is not right for them to live when their child has died. Others feel that they have failed at parenting and somehow they should have found a way to keep the child from dying.

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A wife who loses a husband is called a widow. A husband who loses a wife is called a widower. A child who loses his parents is called an orphan. But...there is no word for a parent who loses a child, that's how awful the loss is!

Checkers

Sep 16 2012, 02:18 PM

Only1Way

Sep 16 2012, 08:10 AM

But she used the death of Cassie as an explanation for her behavior. She uses Faith to try to keep Nick where she wants him.

Both Sharon and Phyllis use their skin traps to get what they want.
Enough said.

How does Sharon use Faith to get to Nick? Try the other way around. That was Nick using custody of Faith to keep Sharon in line. I don't recall any scenes of Sharon begging Nick to stay with her because of Faith.

A death of a child deeply affects parents. Some parents NEVER get over losing child. That is realistic.

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Parental grief is boundless. It touches every aspect of [a] parent's being...When a baby dies, parents grieve for the rest of their lives. Their grief becomes part of them...As time passes, parents come to appreciate that grief is [their] link to the child, [their] grief keeps [them] connected to the child.

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Sociologists and psychologists describe parental grief as complex and multilayered and agree that the death of a child is an incredibly traumatic event leaving parents with overwhelming emotional needs. They also agree that this grief must be acknowledged and felt in its intensity. These experts repeatedly state that dealing with parental grief involves deep pain and ongoing work as the parents attempt to continue their "journey down the lonely road of grief" (Wisconsin Perspectives Newsletter, February 1997, 1).

Grieving parents say that their grief is a lifelong process, a long and painful process..."a process in which [they] try to take and keep some meaning from the loss and life without the [child]" (Arnold and Gemma 1983, 57). After a child's death, parents embark on a long, sad journey that can be very frightening and extremely lonely- a journey that never really ends. The hope and desire that healing will come eventually is an intense and persistent one for grieving parents.

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Parental grief is overwhelming; there is nothing that can prepare a parent for its enormity or devastation; parental grief never ends but only changes in intensity and manner of expression; parental grief affects the head, the heart, and the spirit.

For parents, the death of a child means coming to terms with untold emptiness and deep emotional hurt. Immediately after the death, some parents may even find it impossible to express grief at all as many experience a period of shock and numbness.

Parental bereavement often brings with it a sense of despair, a sense that life is not worth living, a sense of disarray and of utter and complete confusion. At times, the parent's pain may seem so severe and his/her energy and desire to live so lacking that there is uncertainty about survival. Some bereaved parents feel that it is not right for them to live when their child has died. Others feel that they have failed at parenting and somehow they should have found a way to keep the child from dying.

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A wife who loses a husband is called a widow. A husband who loses a wife is called a widower. A child who loses his parents is called an orphan. But...there is no word for a parent who loses a child, that's how awful the loss is!

Only1Way

Sep 17 2012, 01:18 PM

Losing a child isn't something new. It's horrible, I can only imagine. If they have other children then they have to keep on keeping on. The rest of the family should fall apart because one is gone? You mourn along with the rest of the family and continue on. You never replace that child but I don't think the child that passed on is up there telling Mom to give up and ignore the other children because of it. Parents die and the family cries and cries for days but if you could hear their voice talking to you they would tell you,
'I miss you too but you have to pull it together for the rest of the family.
They need you strong for them too. Stop crying now and know that I am better now. No pain, no fears.
I love you and watching for you always.'

Not turn into a thieving, whoring mess.

Only1Way

Sep 17 2012, 01:18 PM

Not turn into a thieving, whoring mess.

Only1Way

Sep 17 2012, 07:04 PM

Nick grieves but he doesn't use Cassie's death as an excuse to be what he is, a useless gland of testosterone. He's a doormat. He's a whore too but when he messes up he doesn't go on and on about Cassie, implying the she is the reason that he's a mess.
He could have been a drunk, or ran away totally. No, he stuck around. Didn't start breaking the law and saying others set him up for the fall. He's been there for his kids when she had to go 'find herself' over and over. There are a lot of Dads that are assholes but still there for the kids. A solid parent.
I don't deny Nick is a dick. He didn't hold back when he laced into Summer and used the accident with Cassie as an example of what can happen when you drink.