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Spoilers for week of January 27; *updated 1/20*
Topic Started: Jan 15 2014, 04:28 PM (38,401 Views)
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Jan 19 2014, 12:35 PM
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Jan 19 2014, 11:58 AM
As many have said over and over, many people don't see Ejami as a love story. Sure, soap couples go through their share of problems, some fairly extreme. But the rooting couples should not be THE SOURCE of each other's misery and that has been their history starting in year one and STILL continuing in this (to which I would love to be) final year.
Kind of like Ejabby is starting now. Some people are not buying its this grand love story either because of the way it's starting. From a place of hurting and cheating. EJ and Abby are being the surce of each others pain as a result of this affair. EJ wants Abby to keep quiet and quietly go away so no one will find out and Abby wants more from EJ knowing full well he's in a relationship with a family member. If its up to Abby, judging by her reaction on Friday, she'll very much like EJ to be hers, Sami and her kids be damned.

Either way you look at it, both couples started in a placewhere they're causing hurt and pain to other people so I fail to see why Ejami got the bad rap- granted they've been at it a Long time. We don't know yet if Ejabby will be like that, we'll just have to wait and see.
EJami got the bad rap because they perpetuate the myth that rape is no big deal because women are meant to be used by men for their pleasure. That all women lie about being raped. A myth that Days of our Lives once broke new ground by fighting against with the dramatic story of Kayla's fight for justice after being raped by her husband. Still today it is believed that women cannot be raped by their husbands because she is not allowed to say no.
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Jan 19 2014, 11:58 AM
As many have said over and over, many people don't see Ejami as a love story. Sure, soap couples go through their share of problems, some fairly extreme. But the rooting couples should not be THE SOURCE of each other's misery and that has been their history starting in year one and STILL continuing in this (to which I would love to be) final year.
Kind of like Ejabby is starting now. Some people are not buying its this grand love story either because of the way it's starting. From a place of hurting and cheating. EJ and Abby are being the surce of each others pain as a result of this affair. EJ wants Abby to keep quiet and quietly go away so no one will find out and Abby wants more from EJ knowing full well he's in a relationship with a family member. If its up to Abby, judging by her reaction on Friday, she'll very much like EJ to be hers, Sami and her kids be damned.

Either way you look at it, both couples started in a placewhere they're causing hurt and pain to other people so I fail to see why Ejami got the bad rap- granted they've been at it a Long time. We don't know yet if Ejabby will be like that, we'll just have to wait and see.
I still see you are putting most of the blame on Abby and giving the one engaged to Sami a pass. If Abby does go cray on EJ, I hope she destroys him and he loses everything. EJ deserves it and I hope Sami finds a less sleezy man
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Jan 19 2014, 01:01 PM
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Jan 19 2014, 12:35 PM
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Jan 19 2014, 11:58 AM
As many have said over and over, many people don't see Ejami as a love story. Sure, soap couples go through their share of problems, some fairly extreme. But the rooting couples should not be THE SOURCE of each other's misery and that has been their history starting in year one and STILL continuing in this (to which I would love to be) final year.
Kind of like Ejabby is starting now. Some people are not buying its this grand love story either because of the way it's starting. From a place of hurting and cheating. EJ and Abby are being the surce of each others pain as a result of this affair. EJ wants Abby to keep quiet and quietly go away so no one will find out and Abby wants more from EJ knowing full well he's in a relationship with a family member. If its up to Abby, judging by her reaction on Friday, she'll very much like EJ to be hers, Sami and her kids be damned.

Either way you look at it, both couples started in a placewhere they're causing hurt and pain to other people so I fail to see why Ejami got the bad rap- granted they've been at it a Long time. We don't know yet if Ejabby will be like that, we'll just have to wait and see.
EJami got the bad rap because they perpetuate the myth that rape is no big deal because women are meant to be used by men for their pleasure. That women lie about being raped. A myth that Days of our Lives once broke new ground by fighting against with the dramatic story of Kayla's fight for justice after being raped by her husband. Still today it is believed that women cannot be raped by their husbands because she is not allowed to say no.
I agree about the rape storyline. That was in poor taste and badly done. They could have gone a different route completely.
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I can call Abby a slut because she is most definitely acting like a slut. It doesn't matter how many men she's been with, what matters is her current actions and they are absolutely slutty, IMO.

She's not trying to talk to EJ in the cabin and get to know him better. She's just ready to jump his bones again which = slut in my book.

Yes, EJ is acting like a slut too, if that makes it any better but I don't see how EJ's actions or Sami's actions have anything to do with Abby herself and how she is acting.

I haven't commented because I don't have much to say. This story makes zero sense based on the setup. I don't get how Abby goes around wringing her hands of giving her virginity to Chad, the dastardly evil man who lied to her and her woe is me attitude to acting like such a slut a few weeks later.

I also don't get how EJ goes from proclaiming his love to Sami and in the same day sleeping with such a little girl.

They could have gotten this story there. I may not have liked it but they could have built in reasons for it to lead to this place. Right now it's just a crazy, 180 degree plot twist.

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Jan 19 2014, 12:35 PM
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Jan 19 2014, 11:58 AM
As many have said over and over, many people don't see Ejami as a love story. Sure, soap couples go through their share of problems, some fairly extreme. But the rooting couples should not be THE SOURCE of each other's misery and that has been their history starting in year one and STILL continuing in this (to which I would love to be) final year.
Kind of like Ejabby is starting now. Some people are not buying its this grand love story either because of the way it's starting. From a place of hurting and cheating. EJ and Abby are being the surce of each others pain as a result of this affair. EJ wants Abby to keep quiet and quietly go away so no one will find out and Abby wants more from EJ knowing full well he's in a relationship with a family member. If its up to Abby, judging by her reaction on Friday, she'll very much like EJ to be hers, Sami and her kids be damned.

Either way you look at it, both couples started in a placewhere they're causing hurt and pain to other people so I fail to see why Ejami got the bad rap- granted they've been at it a Long time. We don't know yet if Ejabby will be like that, we'll just have to wait and see.
I still see you are putting most of the blame on Abby and giving the one engaged to Sami a pass. If Abby does go cray on EJ, I hope she destroys him and he loses everything. EJ deserves it and I hope Sami finds a less sleezy man
Oh trust me, EJ doesn't get a pass either but there's two guilty party here. EJ and Abby and both of them would have stopped this at any time but they didn't. And yes, after this, Sami does deserve better.
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Jan 19 2014, 12:35 PM
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Jan 19 2014, 11:58 AM
As many have said over and over, many people don't see Ejami as a love story. Sure, soap couples go through their share of problems, some fairly extreme. But the rooting couples should not be THE SOURCE of each other's misery and that has been their history starting in year one and STILL continuing in this (to which I would love to be) final year.
Kind of like Ejabby is starting now. Some people are not buying its this grand love story either because of the way it's starting. From a place of hurting and cheating. EJ and Abby are being the surce of each others pain as a result of this affair. EJ wants Abby to keep quiet and quietly go away so no one will find out and Abby wants more from EJ knowing full well he's in a relationship with a family member. If its up to Abby, judging by her reaction on Friday, she'll very much like EJ to be hers, Sami and her kids be damned.

Either way you look at it, both couples started in a placewhere they're causing hurt and pain to other people so I fail to see why Ejami got the bad rap- granted they've been at it a Long time. We don't know yet if Ejabby will be like that, we'll just have to wait and see.
No, EJ and Abby's cheating is going to hurt Sami the most. Should Ejami recover, Ejabby sex is just another nail in their demented relationship.

And many love stories on this show have started while one of the people were already in a relationship which even includes Ejami. I'm not delusional enough to believe Ejabby will be the great supercouple of all time, nor do I think this is the end of Ejami. But I refuse to believe that EJami's story is some kind of sacred union between two tragic characters who only exist to be with each other.
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Jan 19 2014, 01:05 PM
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Jan 19 2014, 12:35 PM
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Jan 19 2014, 11:58 AM
As many have said over and over, many people don't see Ejami as a love story. Sure, soap couples go through their share of problems, some fairly extreme. But the rooting couples should not be THE SOURCE of each other's misery and that has been their history starting in year one and STILL continuing in this (to which I would love to be) final year.
Kind of like Ejabby is starting now. Some people are not buying its this grand love story either because of the way it's starting. From a place of hurting and cheating. EJ and Abby are being the surce of each others pain as a result of this affair. EJ wants Abby to keep quiet and quietly go away so no one will find out and Abby wants more from EJ knowing full well he's in a relationship with a family member. If its up to Abby, judging by her reaction on Friday, she'll very much like EJ to be hers, Sami and her kids be damned.

Either way you look at it, both couples started in a placewhere they're causing hurt and pain to other people so I fail to see why Ejami got the bad rap- granted they've been at it a Long time. We don't know yet if Ejabby will be like that, we'll just have to wait and see.
I still see you are putting most of the blame on Abby and giving the one engaged to Sami a pass. If Abby does go cray on EJ, I hope she destroys him and he loses everything. EJ deserves it and I hope Sami finds a less sleezy man
Oh trust me, EJ doesn't get a pass either but there's two guilty party here. EJ and Abby and both of them would have stopped this at any time but they didn't. And yes, after this, Sami does deserve better.
I agree with you. So lets hope that both EJ and Abby get what they deserve and Sami finds a NEW HOT MAN and moves on with her life. Sami deserves better than EJ and Abby is just a little girl
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Jan 19 2014, 11:58 AM
As many have said over and over, many people don't see Ejami as a love story. Sure, soap couples go through their share of problems, some fairly extreme. But the rooting couples should not be THE SOURCE of each other's misery and that has been their history starting in year one and STILL continuing in this (to which I would love to be) final year.
And on the flip side, many people do enjoy EJami as a love story. I find those quantifying statements pointless because we don't know what the GA like.

I don't have a black and white definition of why I root for a couple to be together. Honestly, I think I have rooted harder for EJami over the years because the show told me over and over that I 'shouldn't' root for them. I don't listen to that. I like what I like.

Anyways, getting back to the spoilers, I just find myself caring less and less about the show. I'm in the minority here because Ericole does nothing for me. There's not much holding my interest so meh to the spoilers.
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double post.
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I still see you are putting most of the blame on Abby and giving the one engaged to Sami a pass. If Abby does go cray on EJ, I hope she destroys him and he loses everything. EJ deserves it and I hope Sami finds a less sleezy man
Oh trust me, EJ doesn't get a pass either but there's two guilty party here. EJ and Abby and both of them would have stopped this at any time but they didn't. And yes, after this, Sami does deserve better.
I agree with you. So lets hope that both EJ and Abby get what they deserve and Sami finds a NEW HOT MAN and moves on with her life. Sami deserves better than EJ and Abby is just a little girl
sami does not need new man .sami need to be single for few months that after she move in to 3 different men in span of 6 months
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I have yet to see any indication that Ej does not love or want Sami anymore. Quite the contrary, Sure he fucked up royally and he is going to lose the most important thing in his life. But when the affair is exposed, I expect Ej to fight for his relationship with Sami and do everything he can to make it right again. I do not think for a second he is going to let her go. He can't, Sami means everything to him.

Ej is in a bad place right now. He made a huge mistake by using sex to keep the little girl from talking to hope and now he is trying to do damage control. Ej is using Abby for sex because for one thing he is horny and Abby is an easy lay. He is also using sex to control her and the pathetic girl knows that and she wants his dick so badly she does not even mind. She must have no self-esteem which is sad really for a beautiful young girl.

The point is Ej is not going to leave Sami for the little slut in heat, not ever. He does not really care for her romantically. everything he has said to her was lip service, you know pretty empty words that guy use to get what they want. What Ej wants is for Abbyslut to keep her mouth shut about Nick and the affair.

Think about it, if Ej wanted Abby, he has the way opportunity to leave Sami since they are already having problems. Sami has been rejected him for months and he is the one holding on to the relationship, still protecting her, still fighting for her. Sure he is fed that she keeps taking him for granted which is why he is lashing out by fucking some random chick. Anyway you look at, he is using poor Abbyslut either for meaningless sex or for her silence or both. But I can not feel sorry for her because she knows the deal and she still throwing herself at Ej shamelessly. That poor girl is one step away from being obsessed after just one fucking session LOL. The signs are already showing. I fully believe we are headed for some kind of fatal attraction angle a la Austin.

No one knows for sure where this is really going in the long run. But from what I have seen so far, Ej is still deeply in love with Sami. Otherwise, why would he still be trying to protect Sami, why would he care if Abby blab, why would he care if someone finds out about the affair? Most importantly, why would he try to bribe her to leave town like an inconvenience? Ej could have Abby if he wanted her, but yet he is trying to protect his relationship with Sami by trying to get rid of the 'mistress' even though Sami keeps pushing him away.

We should have a clearer idea where this is going in the next 2 weeks, but I am willing to bet that Ej is going to choose his relationship with Sami over Abbywhore while he tries his best to get rid of her. I am guessing Abbyslut will have none of that because she will be too obsessed.

Anyway, this is my 2 cents for whatever it is worth. I just thought it was interesting that we all have a different perspective of what is the story is about. :biggrin:
The most important thing to EJ is his kids. Sami comes as an extension of that. She is their mother and he has always craved that family unit. It's got nothing to do with this great love you think he has for Sami. If he really loved her, half the things that he has done to her would not have happened, and before you say that Sami has done bad things to him too, it is mostly in retaliation to the things that EJ has done to her. When she threatens to leave she always mentions taking the kids, and that's when he gets all, 'you are not going anywhere.' I remember when she was living in the mansion with him before, around the time, he was just getting to know Nicole, Sami was threatening to leave, and he told her she can go but Johnny was staying. When he heard she was getting married to Rafe, he interrupted their wedding to take his children away from her. He was perfectly ok for Sami to sleep with a stranger, while she had his children, because he was confident that his children would not grow attached to Rafe 2 because, he and his father had the real Rafe who Johnny loved, locked away.

On top of that, it is easy for him to control Sami, well she allows it all the time, She buys into everything he says, and we know she does because she is back with him ones again after how many times? (I reckon if Nicole had taken him back after griefsex, he will be with Nicole now. She didn't want him back so his old obsession resurfaced. Don't forget he also told Nicole that he loved her several times. So, Sami is not the only one that EJ has said he loves.) That is my explanation for EJ, but why Sami keeps going back to her abuser makes little sense. It makes no sense that she would be so willingly to mess up her relationships with two guys who would not have dreamed of allowing her to sleep with a stranger, and wouldn't think of watching her cry over her baby, while making her believe her baby was dead. Now EJ is now cheating on Sami. Can you feel the love.

Also, how can you call Abigail a slut. EJ is the second person she has had sex with in her life time. She is also single. Cant say the same for Sami, but I am sure you would not call her a slut. Even after she cheated on Rafe and was going back and forth between Rafe, Lucas and EJ. EJ is engaged to be married to Sami, he is much older than Abigail so if anything, he should be the one not having sex with Abigail. He has got no excuse. He has got the most to lose. Sami might walk out with his children, but then again, he might fall hard for Abigail who knows, ( I don't believe he is using her, that not how it comes across to me.)and he will be content to share custody over his children with Sami, but that doesn't necessarily mean that, it will be the end of EJ and Sami. Abigail may dump him because of whatever reason, and his obsession with Sami will start again. Even if Sami was happy with another man, he would disrupt her life, she will allow it, EJ and Sami with his kid following behind will be back on again, and round and round we go. There is no available men for Sami on canvass, so she probably be staying put once she finds out.
I have doubted Sami's love for Ej over the years, but I have never doubted his love for Sami. It has been a constant for over 7 years that Sami is the love of his life and she is the center of his universe. Ej worships the very ground she walks on. Yes the kids make the bond even stronger, but it goes beyond that. It is not always flowers and rainbow, but this is not who Ej is. He is a twisted man which makes him perfect for twisted Sami.

If his love for Sami was about just the kids, why did Ej move heaven and earth to get Sami out of prison last Summer? He was willing to go to prison in exchange for her freedom. OMG, He offered himself to the DA in exchange of her freedom. I was floored. There is no purest love than willing to sacrifice yourself to save the one you love. Then when that did not work, he gave up everything for her, money, power, his independence from Stefano, his pride and dignity just to free her. Ej went on his knees kissing stefano's ring like a child, totally humiliating himself for Sami. I have never seen any that extraordinary on a soap. So forgive me if I don't buy into it is for the kids mantra.

Besides if all Ej wanted were his kids and Sami was just part of the package, why would he do all of that to get her free? He could have just let her rot in prison and he would have his kids forever no interference from Sami. He had the perfect opportunity to get rid of her while having full custody of his kids and he chose to get her home. That does not make much sense to me. Even now he is going out of his way to protect her from prison even though they are having problem. If Ej really truly wants Abby, instead of trying to cover her crime, he should just let Sami go down for killing Nick and then he can have Abby and his kids. Win Win for me. But he ain't going to do that, is he? Hmmm I wonder why.....
EJ's love for Sami has been anything but constant. It sure as hell was not love that drove him to kidnap his own daughter and fake her death. And it was not love when he kidnaped Rafe and stuck a stranger in Sami's bed thus endangering Sami. And as much as I hate to bring this up, it was not love when he forced Sami to have sex with him in exchange for Lucas's life. I have to agree with the previous poster. It is not love. It's obsession. He's been obsessed with punishing Sami. First for Grace then for the bullet to the head. His little competition with Rafe was more about beating Rafe than it was about loving Sami. I don't for a second believe he's in love with Sami. Making love to Abby is proof of that. EJ's in love with the idea of having a family.

I think even Sami believes that. She said something similar to Abby when they had that little talk.
I watched that scene again and something struck me: how dismissive Sami was to EJ. She actually said to him "EJ, get lost," this makes me believe she was annoyed and suspicious. I think she's still suspicious.
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i always thought the show writers relish of ej and sami twist dynamic it not about keep ej and sami apart because they could easilly find other ways to make they will not rootable or other stuff or make them apart like they did with days other couples or fandoms they did not want to write.
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The key sentence in your post is "If he loved Sami,he would help clear Eric.".I think he chased her for seven years only because he was obsessed with having her not because he loved her.He has her now but he is lying to her and cheating on her because he actually does not love her.EJ is choosing his adopted sister who he barely knows over Sami.He is choosing to have sex with Abby over being faithful to Sami.I also agree that EJ should not expect showers of gratitude from Sami for involving himself in her messes.EJ knows first hand how much gratitude Rafe and Lucas got from Sami for involving themselves in her messes,in fact he has mocked both Rafe and Lucas to their face about the amount of gratitude they received from Sami for helping her.All this is to say these are reasons I don't believe EJ has ever actually loved Sami,I think he just wanted her because it appeared he could not have her and he saw his obsession with Sami as love.If he loved her he would have likely told her about Kristin and attempted to help as much as Stefano would allow and he would not have had sex with Abby under any circumstances.
Oh I agree, Ej doesn't love Sami. Thats picture clear not just now but also before. I admit I was fooled by his "love" for her, but i am starting to realising that I don't think he loves. He may think he loves her, lust her etc.

Those actions is not of a man loving his woman. I think EJ is simply fixed with an idea of loving Sami and the idea of a being one happy family. I hope this SL will make him realise this and maybe then he can move on with his life, weather it be with Abby or not.

HA,.. wouldn't it be great if Abby would question his love for Sami. Making him realise that if he love Sami, what the heck is he doing with Abby? EJ would probably roar, like an addictive. Just saying.
Kristen once told EJ......and she was talking about Sami, "The best way to get over an obessession is to have it". Well he's had Sami and it looks like with his lying to protect Kristen and his sexing it up with Abby, that he isn't all that interested in keeping her. And I can certainly see him going on and on about how much he loves Sami to Abby and she askes him then what are you doing here with me and he's stumped for an answer.

I can answer that one. He is boinking her because he is horny and she is an easy lay. pure and simple. The ugly truth is men can love their wife or SO and still fuck other women specially when they feel rejected and sexually frustrated. In other words, he is using the little girl for sex because Sami is not putting out.

Oh let's not forget the real reason he is boinking her. In case, you missed it, they have been hitting us over the head that Ej is fucking her to keep her quiet about Nick and their indiscretion. Romantic right?
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Jan 19 2014, 11:58 AM
As many have said over and over, many people don't see Ejami as a love story. Sure, soap couples go through their share of problems, some fairly extreme. But the rooting couples should not be THE SOURCE of each other's misery and that has been their history starting in year one and STILL continuing in this (to which I would love to be) final year.
Kind of like Ejabby is starting now. Some people are not buying its this grand love story either because of the way it's starting. From a place of hurting and cheating. EJ and Abby are being the surce of each others pain as a result of this affair. EJ wants Abby to keep quiet and quietly go away so no one will find out and Abby wants more from EJ knowing full well he's in a relationship with a family member. If its up to Abby, judging by her reaction on Friday, she'll very much like EJ to be hers, Sami and her kids be damned.

Either way you look at it, both couples started in a placewhere they're causing hurt and pain to other people so I fail to see why Ejami got the bad rap- granted they've been at it a Long time. We don't know yet if Ejabby will be like that, we'll just have to wait and see.
No, EJ and Abby's cheating is going to hurt Sami the most. Should Ejami recover, Ejabby sex is just another nail in their demented relationship.

And many love stories on this show have started while one of the people were already in a relationship which even includes Ejami. I'm not delusional enough to believe Ejabby will be the great supercouple of all time, nor do I think this is the end of Ejami. But I refuse to believe that EJami's story is some kind of sacred union between two tragic characters who only exist to be with each other.


Fair enough. As far as the cheating go, this is a soap. As I mentioned earlier, most supercouples on the show have cheated at one time or another and they somehow recover. I don't like the story, but I am still rooting for Ejami. I respect that some do not like them, but many of us do. I don't care for a lot of couples on the show but I respect the fact that othes do. I mean We like what we like. They are never going to be able to please everyone, but hopefully each of us can find something we like.
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Anyone care to discuss something that isn't about EJami? :shrug:
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It creeps me the fuck out when people call Abby "a little girl."
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I have yet to see any indication that Ej does not love or want Sami anymore. Quite the contrary, Sure he fucked up royally and he is going to lose the most important thing in his life. But when the affair is exposed, I expect Ej to fight for his relationship with Sami and do everything he can to make it right again. I do not think for a second he is going to let her go. He can't, Sami means everything to him.

Ej is in a bad place right now. He made a huge mistake by using sex to keep the little girl from talking to hope and now he is trying to do damage control. Ej is using Abby for sex because for one thing he is horny and Abby is an easy lay. He is also using sex to control her and the pathetic girl knows that and she wants his dick so badly she does not even mind. She must have no self-esteem which is sad really for a beautiful young girl.

The point is Ej is not going to leave Sami for the little slut in heat, not ever. He does not really care for her romantically. everything he has said to her was lip service, you know pretty empty words that guy use to get what they want. What Ej wants is for Abbyslut to keep her mouth shut about Nick and the affair.

Think about it, if Ej wanted Abby, he has the way opportunity to leave Sami since they are already having problems. Sami has been rejected him for months and he is the one holding on to the relationship, still protecting her, still fighting for her. Sure he is fed that she keeps taking him for granted which is why he is lashing out by fucking some random chick. Anyway you look at, he is using poor Abbyslut either for meaningless sex or for her silence or both. But I can not feel sorry for her because she knows the deal and she still throwing herself at Ej shamelessly. That poor girl is one step away from being obsessed after just one fucking session LOL. The signs are already showing. I fully believe we are headed for some kind of fatal attraction angle a la Austin.

No one knows for sure where this is really going in the long run. But from what I have seen so far, Ej is still deeply in love with Sami. Otherwise, why would he still be trying to protect Sami, why would he care if Abby blab, why would he care if someone finds out about the affair? Most importantly, why would he try to bribe her to leave town like an inconvenience? Ej could have Abby if he wanted her, but yet he is trying to protect his relationship with Sami by trying to get rid of the 'mistress' even though Sami keeps pushing him away.

We should have a clearer idea where this is going in the next 2 weeks, but I am willing to bet that Ej is going to choose his relationship with Sami over Abbywhore while he tries his best to get rid of her. I am guessing Abbyslut will have none of that because she will be too obsessed.

Anyway, this is my 2 cents for whatever it is worth. I just thought it was interesting that we all have a different perspective of what is the story is about. :biggrin:
The most important thing to EJ is his kids. Sami comes as an extension of that. She is their mother and he has always craved that family unit. It's got nothing to do with this great love you think he has for Sami. If he really loved her, half the things that he has done to her would not have happened, and before you say that Sami has done bad things to him too, it is mostly in retaliation to the things that EJ has done to her. When she threatens to leave she always mentions taking the kids, and that's when he gets all, 'you are not going anywhere.' I remember when she was living in the mansion with him before, around the time, he was just getting to know Nicole, Sami was threatening to leave, and he told her she can go but Johnny was staying. When he heard she was getting married to Rafe, he interrupted their wedding to take his children away from her. He was perfectly ok for Sami to sleep with a stranger, while she had his children, because he was confident that his children would not grow attached to Rafe 2 because, he and his father had the real Rafe who Johnny loved, locked away.

On top of that, it is easy for him to control Sami, well she allows it all the time, She buys into everything he says, and we know she does because she is back with him ones again after how many times? (I reckon if Nicole had taken him back after griefsex, he will be with Nicole now. She didn't want him back so his old obsession resurfaced. Don't forget he also told Nicole that he loved her several times. So, Sami is not the only one that EJ has said he loves.) That is my explanation for EJ, but why Sami keeps going back to her abuser makes little sense. It makes no sense that she would be so willingly to mess up her relationships with two guys who would not have dreamed of allowing her to sleep with a stranger, and wouldn't think of watching her cry over her baby, while making her believe her baby was dead. Now EJ is now cheating on Sami. Can you feel the love.

Also, how can you call Abigail a slut. EJ is the second person she has had sex with in her life time. She is also single. Cant say the same for Sami, but I am sure you would not call her a slut. Even after she cheated on Rafe and was going back and forth between Rafe, Lucas and EJ. EJ is engaged to be married to Sami, he is much older than Abigail so if anything, he should be the one not having sex with Abigail. He has got no excuse. He has got the most to lose. Sami might walk out with his children, but then again, he might fall hard for Abigail who knows, ( I don't believe he is using her, that not how it comes across to me.)and he will be content to share custody over his children with Sami, but that doesn't necessarily mean that, it will be the end of EJ and Sami. Abigail may dump him because of whatever reason, and his obsession with Sami will start again. Even if Sami was happy with another man, he would disrupt her life, she will allow it, EJ and Sami with his kid following behind will be back on again, and round and round we go. There is no available men for Sami on canvass, so she probably be staying put once she finds out.
I have doubted Sami's love for Ej over the years, but I have never doubted his love for Sami. It has been a constant for over 7 years that Sami is the love of his life and she is the center of his universe. Ej worships the very ground she walks on. Yes the kids make the bond even stronger, but it goes beyond that. It is not always flowers and rainbow, but this is not who Ej is. He is a twisted man which makes him perfect for twisted Sami.

If his love for Sami was about just the kids, why did Ej move heaven and earth to get Sami out of prison last Summer? He was willing to go to prison in exchange for her freedom. OMG, He offered himself to the DA in exchange of her freedom. I was floored. There is no purest love than willing to sacrifice yourself to save the one you love. Then when that did not work, he gave up everything for her, money, power, his independence from Stefano, his pride and dignity just to free her. Ej went on his knees kissing stefano's ring like a child, totally humiliating himself for Sami. I have never seen any that extraordinary on a soap. So forgive me if I don't buy into it is for the kids mantra.

Besides if all Ej wanted were his kids and Sami was just part of the package, why would he do all of that to get her free? He could have just let her rot in prison and he would have his kids forever no interference from Sami. He had the perfect opportunity to get rid of her while having full custody of his kids and he chose to get her home. That does not make much sense to me. Even now he is going out of his way to protect her from prison even though they are having problem. If Ej really truly wants Abby, instead of trying to cover her crime, he should just let Sami go down for killing Nick and then he can have Abby and his kids. Win Win for me. But he ain't going to do that, is he? Hmmm I wonder why.....
Safe had Rafe sacrificing everything for Sami too and loving her, where are they today? Storylines can change with a stroke of a pen and things that happpened on screen in the past don't mean a damn thing in the future. I remember Sami chasing after Lucas clearly in love with him and EJ was in the picture, I remember EJ in love with Nicole, I remember EJ in love with Taylor, I remember Sami in love with Austin.......and I remember everything you mentioned above happening between Ejami. But all that has past and we'll have to see what the future holds for them as a couple.
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Anyone care to discuss something that isn't about EJami? :shrug:
I do. Does Hope have her first scene with DC this week? And I know Ciara is going to lie her little behind off. :D
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Anyone care to discuss something that isn't about EJami? :shrug:
I do. Does Hope have her first scene with DC this week? And I know Ciara is going to lie her little behind off. :D
"this week" referring to the week we're currently in, as opposed to the week the spoilers in this thread are about, yes.
I'm not sure Ciara's gonna be able to lie her way out of this one - at least not for long.
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One thing we can all agree on is that Ej is buzzworthy. That is why he is always going to be front and center while some other characters get backburned. For instance, Lucas finally getting a story and love interest, but no buzz. I would think folk would want to promote him so he can the contract that he deserves. Also Rafe has a blossoming love interest, cricket lol. Ericole is supposed to be the next big thing, yet it is being overshadowed by Ej's sleazy romp. I think it is safe to say if the little girl was boinking lucas or rafe, nobody would give a shit. It is the JS/Ej factor. Love him or hate him, he gets people to talk and so does Sami. That kind of attention is going to help him when it is time for contract negotiation. As a fan of the character, I could not be happier for him.
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