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Topic Started: Jan 31 2014, 10:03 PM (17,473 Views)
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Kaha
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Feb 2 2014, 09:54 PM
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- BeeBee
- Feb 2 2014, 02:30 PM
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- Feb 1 2014, 02:14 PM
I don't necessarily think they don't have chemistry, but I also don't think they're hot. But I'd rather watch them do that than Sami come in all cheery and gushy. If Sami and EJ were already married, this affair would make so much more sense to me.
I'm glad they aren't married only because I like Abby as a character and don't want her to be an adulteress especially if they continue with or re-visit after Sami leaves Salem.I just have a problem with someone being the cause of a marriage breaking up especially when there are children involved.I don't have a problem with people breaking off an engagement because they realize they are making a mistake.Engagement is a committed relationship but I see it as a trial period just above significant other. I am interested in the not necesarily not seeing chemistry but not finding them hot.You don't see much middle ground on the issue yet you seem to be there.Care to elaborate?#stillextremelynosy I don't understand the difference between being engaged or married. Isn't marriage about making a committment to someone, or is it about legal papers or being sanctioned by a religious body?
Personally, I think if you make a commitment to someone, whether that means you're exclusive, engaged, or married it is the same. You're cheating on someone you've made a commitment to.
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Feb 2 2014, 11:43 PM
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- Kaha
- Feb 2 2014, 09:54 PM
- BeeBee
- Feb 2 2014, 02:30 PM
- lysie
- Feb 1 2014, 02:14 PM
I don't necessarily think they don't have chemistry, but I also don't think they're hot. But I'd rather watch them do that than Sami come in all cheery and gushy. If Sami and EJ were already married, this affair would make so much more sense to me.
I'm glad they aren't married only because I like Abby as a character and don't want her to be an adulteress especially if they continue with or re-visit after Sami leaves Salem.I just have a problem with someone being the cause of a marriage breaking up especially when there are children involved.I don't have a problem with people breaking off an engagement because they realize they are making a mistake.Engagement is a committed relationship but I see it as a trial period just above significant other. I am interested in the not necesarily not seeing chemistry but not finding them hot.You don't see much middle ground on the issue yet you seem to be there.Care to elaborate?#stillextremelynosy
I don't understand the difference between being engaged or married. Isn't marriage about making a committment to someone, or is it about legal papers or being sanctioned by a religious body? Personally, I think if you make a commitment to someone, whether that means you're exclusive, engaged, or married it is the same. You're cheating on someone you've made a commitment to. I just see a relationship hierachy.1)dating 2)dating exclusively 3)living together and/or engaged to be married 4)married with each level demonstrating a deepening level of commitment to each other.Any continuing relationship with another person while you are at level (2),(3),or (4) is cheating and hurtful but I still view marriage as the highest level of commitment to another person.Its the reason some viewers want EJ and Sami and Will and Sonny to walk down the aisle in a wedding ceremony even though they are currently living together in committed relationships instead of being.Sanction by a religious body is not a signficant factor but the legally binding nature of the commitment is quite significant.I think marriage is an announcement to each other and the world at large that you and your partner are in mondgamous relationship with an engagement being an announcement to the world at large that you are about to move to that phase of your relationship. I am not claiming that Abby or EJ are engaging in appropriate behavior but they are acting on the feelings they have for each other.It is up to EJ to decide whether he wants to remain in a relationship with Sami and marry her.Its up to Abby to decide how far she is willing to go with her relationship with EJ based on his level of commitment to Sami.I am accepting of the current relationship between him and Abby.
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S loves EJ
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Feb 3 2014, 05:46 AM
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I don´t think Sami is gonna be that accepting of Ejabby´s relationship. ^o)
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Feb 3 2014, 11:43 AM
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I can't wait for the shower scenes!!! bring on Ejabby - they look very HOT!!!
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S loves EJ
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Feb 4 2014, 04:31 AM
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- BeeBee
- Feb 2 2014, 11:43 PM
- Kaha
- Feb 2 2014, 09:54 PM
- BeeBee
- Feb 2 2014, 02:30 PM
- lysie
- Feb 1 2014, 02:14 PM
I don't necessarily think they don't have chemistry, but I also don't think they're hot. But I'd rather watch them do that than Sami come in all cheery and gushy. If Sami and EJ were already married, this affair would make so much more sense to me.
I'm glad they aren't married only because I like Abby as a character and don't want her to be an adulteress especially if they continue with or re-visit after Sami leaves Salem.I just have a problem with someone being the cause of a marriage breaking up especially when there are children involved.I don't have a problem with people breaking off an engagement because they realize they are making a mistake.Engagement is a committed relationship but I see it as a trial period just above significant other. I am interested in the not necesarily not seeing chemistry but not finding them hot.You don't see much middle ground on the issue yet you seem to be there.Care to elaborate?#stillextremelynosy
I don't understand the difference between being engaged or married. Isn't marriage about making a committment to someone, or is it about legal papers or being sanctioned by a religious body? Personally, I think if you make a commitment to someone, whether that means you're exclusive, engaged, or married it is the same. You're cheating on someone you've made a commitment to.
I just see a relationship hierachy.1)dating 2)dating exclusively 3)living together and/or engaged to be married 4)married with each level demonstrating a deepening level of commitment to each other.Any continuing relationship with another person while you are at level (2),(3),or (4) is cheating and hurtful but I still view marriage as the highest level of commitment to another person.Its the reason some viewers want EJ and Sami and Will and Sonny to walk down the aisle in a wedding ceremony even though they are currently living together in committed relationships instead of being.Sanction by a religious body is not a signficant factor but the legally binding nature of the commitment is quite significant.I think marriage is an announcement to each other and the world at large that you and your partner are in mondgamous relationship with an engagement being an announcement to the world at large that you are about to move to that phase of your relationship. I am not claiming that Abby or EJ are engaging in appropriate behavior but they are acting on the feelings they have for each other.It is up to EJ to decide whether he wants to remain in a relationship with Sami and marry her.Its up to Abby to decide how far she is willing to go with her relationship with EJ based on his level of commitment to Sami.I am accepting of the current relationship between him and Abby.
The thing is EJ isn´t gonna let Sami go and tell her he realized they are wrong for one an other, but he is still gonna want to marry her but most likely end up loosing her at the altar because he cheated.
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Feb 4 2014, 11:30 AM
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- Kate S.
- Jan 31 2014, 10:13 PM
Hmm..."375 Private Changing Area" looks like an office or waiting room with a shower stall tacked on. ^_^ It looks ridiculous! They seriously need some new sets.
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